I was humbled to be featured in the Winter Issue of Gay Pages 2017 and to share the reasons I left to travel with its estimated 45 000 readership. It was a great experience shooting with Zander Opperman and coming up with the concept and drafting the full article below with Kevin Du Plessis:
1 May 2012, Cape Town, South AfricaSo diary, here I am. Five operations in and still no solution in sight… Doctors can’t seem to figure out what’s wrong with me. I am feeling super hopeless. My parents have offered that I move back in with them while I try and see their doctors back in Pretoria but if they can’t fix it down here, why would they be able to up there? What about my life and my job… I can’t believe what started with a little toothache two years ago has caused this ugly growth on my jaw… today at Woolworth’s the cashier went, ‘Whats wrong with your face?’ I am feeling so stuck and helpless…. what am I going to do?18 February 2013, Johannesburg, South AfricaDiary!!! Today is the day! I’m about to board my plane to Seoul, where I am going to be an English Teacher. The 6 months I spent in and out of hospitals in Pretoria felt like an eternity… I was so upset to find out that the dentist who was supposed to treat a simple cavity, assisted by a ton of other medical negligence, had caused near fatal Ludwig’s Angina. With something as simple as extracting the tooth, I am finally starting to recover. Being bed ridden for the better part of last year, with a face pump stuck to me, has made this 22 year old body so skinny and weak… I won’t lie Diary, with this ugly new scar on my jaw, I am not feeling very confident in my looks. I am however determined to get my body healthy and strong again and to never feel that stuck again. Let’s go see the world!24 August 2014, Busan, South KoreaWow Diary, has it really been more than a year? Korea has been so good to me. Adapting to the culture has been an adventure and I am happy to say that everything I was scared of at the airport was for nothing. I love my work, the culture (especially the food!) and have a vigorous fitness regime. I am now a qualified personal trainer, I speak Korean with confidence and have already traveled to see the terracotta soldiers in China and Tokyo Disney! Also Diary, very exciting! I shared some pictures of my travels and my fitness progress on Instagram and a renowned Egyptian photographer in Seoul asked if he could photograph me in Busan’s beautiful bamboo forest. I have worked hard to get my health back, and because I know it can all get taken away tomorrow, why not? It would be a nice way to remember my time in Korea. I hope he can edit out the scar, haha!20 December, 2014, Hong Kong, ChinaDiary I can’t believe that in a few short months so many photographers have reached out and asked to work with me. I am not extremely tall, the scar is still quite clear and at 24 I thought I was too old to be a “model”… the response to the bamboo forest photos have been extremely humbling. I have been shooting with some of my heroes and hopefully my photos prove that taking off your clothes can be empowering rather than sleazy if it showcases the beauty of hard work. So many kind people have sent messages telling me I inspired them to get healthy and fit. Right now I am in Hong Kong shooting with theADDDproject who have come up with an amazing concept covering me in googly-eye stickers spreading my message of self empowerment to the thousands of queer readers of DNA Australia and the huge blog Fashionably Male. Strike a pose.
4 September 2015, New York City, USADiary, I started talking to French Photographer duo, Exterface and South African menswear genie Stiaan Louw over a year ago. I think their gorgeous collaborative work empowers gay men to take charge of their sexuality in their conceptual underwear. I am such a fan. When they suggested we work together I was so excited till I realised they were on other side of the world… so I thought guess it’s something to dream about hey Diary? Enter Madonna. My Idol was set to start her tour in Miami and I blew all my savings on getting front row tickets on opening night. Tickets booked, I counted down the days only to learn that she was postponing the show to dates I couldn’t attend. But instead of seeing my girl live, I decided not to cancel everything and go enjoy a holiday states side. Good thing I did or I wouldn’t be standing here with the Exterface Boys… In New York City… In custom Stiaan Louw! Being photographed at such an iconic location – the baseball pitch in Central Park – is nothing short of magical. The look is so playful and through the conversation created by presenting sports gear in a homo-erotic way I feel the photos will release so many feelings we gay man suppress while watching or playing sport. NYC! Absolutely the concrete jungle where dreams are made.13 February 2016, Tokyo, JapanDiary, almost 3 years ago a naive and sickly looking little farm boy stepped off the plane in Seoul. How is this my last month living in Korea?! To celebrate all the places I have seen and all the amazing highs I have experienced my best friend from South Africa has to come explore Japan with me. Best of all Diary! It turns out the tour Madonna postponed has come to Asia and we are sitting in the shadow of her famous Erotica-era corset as framed in the Hard Rock Cafe anticipating seeing the icon tomorrow! I am so grateful to my experiences in Asia and abroad for giving me my health back. Diary I think I am ready to return to South Africa but not before I tell you this! I am going to perform at Asia’s largest Gay Festival in Bangkok this April as the first western GoGO dancer in GCircuit’s decade long history. Far-Eastern cultures are often so repressive when it comes to sexuality so I am thrilled to be a part of one of the most visible and celebrated pink events on the continent. What a way to say Cyonara Asia!21 August 2016, Paris, FranceDiary, today has been a day of days… Paris is everything the little boy who studied French in High School could dream off. All the more because today I shot in custom Stiaan Louw for a second time with Exterface on their home ground. Stiaan has been calling me one of his muses and designed an enchanting collection of intimate wear named after me for their new brand EXSL. Diary! The items are a mixture of hard metallic harnesses and softer pastel creations. People the world over are sharing images in these items, proudly flaunting their queerness and their bodies of all shapes and sizes. Who would have thought, my first cover shot in Paris with love. What next?01 May 2017, Pretoria, South AfricaDiary look at this, “Congratulations – You’ve been selected by Sync Model Management.” I read this email just as I was finalising the arrangements for a two month teaching stint in Shanghai. Five years ago I would beat myself up daily about never getting healthy again. I would never have thought I would be so blessed to be an underwear model for a top gay brand, featured in queer publications around the world – no less traveling to 25 countries fit and healthy – spreading what I hope is a message of body positivity and self empowerment through fitness. This is the life I dreamed off trapped in my hospital bed. What does the future hold? I’ll keep you posted Diary!